Time

Time as a wonderful way of showing you what really matters ,it shows who you are ,it shows who people are ,it shows what’s important and what’s not ,that’s why time is everything ,time changes you ,grows you ,sometimes time as bad timing ,but it’s never wrong ,for instance love ? We thing love lasts forever, maybe it does to 1/3 of the population but time shows you whether it lasts forever or not ,and the thing is time is scary ,we have hopes and dreams of how we want our life’s to be but in time nothing is as it seems because time is all.

Beingstepmum

Being a step mum is amazing and also scary ,because it’s hard and challenging ,if you don’t have children of your own how do you be a step mum ? Well I say it’s not that hard ,if you love kids ,it’s not hard at all but it’s also difficult when you can’t be a full mother to them because you are just a step mum ,and it becomes hard because if they know you not they mother and when decisions are made sometimes you have to step back and know it’s not your place ,I am a full time step mum ,and I love it ,i love it because I love kids ,and to I don’t feel as if I am a step mum ,I give my all ,all the time ,24/7 ,to see little kids grow up infront of you to watch life blossom infront of your eyes is amazing and that’s worth more then anything ,to be apart of it is amazing ,but don’t get me wrong it’s not easy also there’s days when you feel out of place ,there’s days when you feel like no one appreciates you ,and then theres days when people look at me and asks me how do I do it?well if you love someone ,if you love kids ,doesn’t matter what colour or how old ,it all comes down to love .

Challenges

Beingmum is a challenge everyday ,sometimes people look at you and think you got it all worked out and think how does she do it ?but I better every mother out there ,whether she has 1 ,2,3,4, or more kids ,goes through happiness ,sadness,anger and all of the things you can think about a mother goes through ,there’s days when she can’t get out of bed ,and then theres days when shes up at 3 getting things sorted out before her family gets up ,then there’s days when all you want to do is cry because you feel like no one understands and you hide those feelings because you don’t want you children to see you down and out but the amazing thing is that when he or she looks at you and asks you whats wrong without your child knowing that you having a bad day is a child who loves there mother and knows when she’s not right ,so mother’s don’t ever think you not loved ,because when you most need someone you child will always be there .

Is being a mum enough?

There’s days when you feel like your the super mum and then there’s days when you feel like a failure ,but that’s what it feels like when your a mother .when you think your not doing a good enough job for your kids ,think again because you you are there every morning ,every evening ,every breakfast ,lunch,dinner ,if you are there in your child’s life then there’s no reason we you should feel like a failure ,and the thing is no mother is the same but we all have one thing in common is that we love our children .

Easy or hard ?

Who said being a mum is easy? But also who said it’s hard? I think being a mum is based on you and whether you want to me a mother ,there’s a big difference between being a mother and being a mum ,anyone can be a mother but being a mum is loving your child but before that you have to love yourself in order to love another.

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